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As I come to realize I'm the common denominator in all of them, it's great to get some validation and clarity on how to refocus my efforts. Is it his no fear, dangerous and do what I want to do attitude? Whatever the reason, bad boys are becoming a popular alternative to Nice Guys! This book will offer advice and information on how to be respected loved and in control if you decide to date a Bad Boy!
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Means all the more coming from a guy who can be honest but respectful. Would be cool if he wrote books for men and they read them. For example, women have to dress in a particular way, different from men, and we all adhere to these rules because this is what has been happening since we can remember and there is no good reason to change now. Some good girls do not even know that they can date nice guys, because some of these nice guys seem to be aware of the tradition and do not even try to break it. However, after their first few experiences, these girls choose to follow their hearts as opposed to the tradition.
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When it comes to relationship experience, the bad boys make the nice guys look like amateurs. This can be a good thing or a bad thing, depending on the girl in question. Bad boys start getting into relationships as soon as they discover what they are, and hardly have the time or the patience to stay committed to one girl for a long time. To the bad boys, the experience they get dating many girls, and even several at a time, is invaluable, because they get to learn so much about pleasing them. When they come across a good girl, they know exactly what to say and do and the girl will have no choice but to fall head over heels for them.
The nice guys, on the other hand, usually take a long time before getting into a relationship and, when they do, it will probably go for a year or so, a period during which they will never see other girls. If you ever ask why the bad boys get the good girls, the first and most obvious answer from anyone would be that the nice guys are boring.
What works against nice guys and bores girls to death is when they try to flirt like year-olds, by treating women as if they are fragile china and complaining about how unfair men are towards women. Women find a man who is willing to go out of his way to sound polite, play fair, or give up his interests to adopt theirs boring in every sense, which is exactly what nice guys think women want.
However, a man who has the respect of other men, is busy on his life's mission, is confident, and is famous for breaking many women's hearts fascinates women. If you found yourself in an alley and someone in a hat looked at you and started coming in your direction holding something you cannot see clearly, whom would you prefer was by your side, a bad boy or a nice guy? Obviously, no one would choose the nice guy, because he might actually be the reason both of you will be mugged. However, a bad boy, wearing chains around his neck, tattoos all over his arms, and possibly a gun and a knife under his belt would make you feel so comfortable you'd barely even notice the guy coming your way.
Although not all bad boys fit this description, this is the impression the good girls, and most other people in society, have of them. One of a man's primary roles, concerning the girl in his life, is his ability to protect her; one of the things that most women believe only a bad boy can do.
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Another advantage that the bad boy will have over the nice guy with regard to winning the heart of a good girl is in letting her think that she can change him. This innocent girl will look at the bad boy as someone who needs her help to change, and he lets her think that she is the only one with the power to do so.
This will not surprise the bad boy because he has done this before and he knows deep within that the only one with the power to change him is himself. Before the good girl realizes what has happened, the bad boy will have accomplished his purpose and moved on to someone else. The nice guy does not need to change much, so the good girl will not find any fascination or task there. Like Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden, human beings have this desire to do the things that they should not do. If you came across two emails in your mailbox, one titled "Do not Open", and the other one, "Please Read This", which one would you want to open first?
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Chances are that we will think that the latter is an advertisement for some product you do not need, while the former is something you are not supposed to see but you really want to see. Good girls grow up knowing that bad boys are the forbidden fruit, a label that makes the bad boys seem even more attractive to them than they really are.
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The fact that the bad boys go against everything they have been taught makes them want to try out their lifestyle even for a night, one that some taste and never want to come out of. Every girl out there wants to go out with a bad boy, probably because of some of the reasons stated above. This demand for bad boys began a long time ago, and it seems as if it will continue even in the future. Even the girls who are not particularly into bad boys find themselves drawn to them as if they are a rite of passage of sorts, before settling down with whoever their hearts truly love.
Therefore, you can imagine how difficult it would be for a good girl to go against the pressure to date a bad boy. The situation is made even tougher when she meets a boy who not only knows how to play the role of a bad boy, but seems as if the role was made for him.