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She did it for me within hours. My girlfriend showed these signs, then i decided to go through her Instagram account with the help of someone, which i was able to see for myself she was cheating. Thats how much i receive every month but its not about the money, Things changed so slowly in my relationship it was almost impossible to spot that he was cheating but I noticed something, he became more private with his phone and luckily for me, cyberdecoders00 was able to get all the information out of the phone for me to prove that he was indeed cheating. I sent cyberdecoders00 an email to their gee mai l, if you feel your spouse is cheating, dont hesitate to take a step to find out.

When a woman loves you,she loves for real and its always quite obvious. Restraining his mobile from my reach which made me more suspicious. I found out that she was not over her ex and they still see each other whenever i travel for contract jobs overseas. Regardless of the fact that i pay the bills and if i loose my life today she dies rich. Nobody deserves a liar as a partner. Hi Am I overreacting , or is he actually cheating on me.? My boyfriend carried 2 packs of mint with him he said that everyone sand that his breath stinks … Idk Second my boyfriend tried to get his teeth white..

He has not even done this while I been with him And now third he is at work and I called him and usually he gets off the phone at 3: But he tried to get off the phone sooner at 3: Can a guy not have any female friends once he is married? I have been married for 18 years happily. I have a couple female friends where I can just go and hang out with by ourselves like any other guy friend. Pray with other christians and if your married stay intimate have date night and God can make every thing perfect if you pray and ask God to block all the temptations and unite your hearts and bind a divine supernatural trust for one another in Jesus name amen now I need to practice what I preach.

This is exactly what happened to me before. Just try to focus the new life. Once he or she will cheat you; they have an ability to,do always.! Just take a deep breath and let them go.! If she or he knows that that person cheated someone; how the hell they can create a faking smiles on their face.? Should I scream or should I say bad things about that.? I am just tired to feel like that.!

Actually I am happy that he is happy. Anyway if the person cheated before he will going to cheated again.! It is the characteristics of the cheaters.! I just need someone to answer my question as it got me going crazy, could you tell me why is a female asking my baby father for money? I have gone through his phone and saw messages from him and her are they involved in something? When we met he told me he was single but 3 months later l found out he was still seeing his ex girlfriend of 2 years who he had broken up with a few days before we met.

I then told him he has to chose whether he wants to be with her or me. I told him that as much as it hurts l will let him go if he still wanted to be with her. He assured me was done with her but everytime we argued he made an attempt to contact her or another women. I was convinced he always had something to hide and in some cases he did. I am not an insecure person but when l found condoms in his wallet in 2 occasions when he hadnt slept at house l was concerned.

He denied being with anyone else, in the first incident he said he always had the condoms in his wallet which was a lie. In the second incident he said he found the condoms on the bathroom floor in a club and he was drunk and just put them in his wallet but never used them. I never believed a word he of this til this day but l had no solid proof so l let it go. At the time l was 8 months pregnant and l so vulnerable, we were sexually active throught out my pregnancy so l didnt understand why he would step out. In February this year we broke up after a huge fight that ended up involving the police.

He would come and see his daughter now and again and 2 months later a week ago he assured me he had changed and he wanted us to be a family. I said l was willing to give it a go with the help of a councellor. I told him l was afraid of getting my heart broken of trusting him again. But he assured me that he loved me and would never hurt me again. I asked him to be honest with me before we start going for councelling. I asked him if he had been with any other woman intimately while we were apart l also mentioned its ok if he had because we were not together l just didnt want to hear it from someone else.

He then came over to spend a few days with us, l was doing laundry and remembered him saying he had no clean clothes and his washing machine was acting up. I had some laundry to do so l decided to do his laundry together with mine which is something l always did in the past. While l was getting all the dirty clothes out l found a box of open condoms with one condom missing. I was so upset l was shaking but l kept my cool. I then comfronted him and asked him what he was doing with these condoms if he wasnt seeing anyone.

This just brought back a flood of lies that he had told me in the past and it just made me so angry. He started shouting and kept saying he never used it and l just refused to believe it. He started defending himself by saying that l had hurt him too in the past but he never held a grudge. I asked him if l had cheated on him or if he had found condoms in house my of which his answer was no.

I then asked him why l should tolerate this behaviour from him. My whole family thinks he is back news but l still went with my heart although my gut feeling told me otherwise. Im so confused l dont know what to do. Would you believe his story if you were me? But was lying to both of us and seeing us both till i found out he was lying. Than they broke up later on he Asks me out i said yes.

Till he started going behind my back and calling his ex when id fall asleep or go see her after work. I have to fight for his attention. He used to have me as his phone wallpaper now he changed it. He used to let me look at his phone, now anything i ask its not my business.

He blocked me on all social media. No contact photo anymore either. And we used to have the best sex ever, alllllllllll the time. We got into a fight and i mentioned i thought he cheated on me he even said yes. But my kids and his son are so Attached. He is most definitely cheating, and maybe trying to start a new relationship with someone else or getting back with his ex. I am sure that when him and his ex that he cheated on with for you l, first got together everything was wonderful and she thought it would last for real until he start doing the same things you have described above to her.

Then you came along. So please do yourself a huge favor and leave that relationship right where it stand. I guarantee you will see the real him. Your with a married man!? They will never leave there wives for you just know that. Girl you just need to take this L and start over! Since there are plenty fish in the sea that are not married! Find one and let hers be! He is accusing you of doing something that his is doing. The real question is What outcome Are you expecting?

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Why u with a married man? U dont like it so imagine how his wife will feel! Hes a cunt and your a bitch! His wife is better off without him and i hope he does the same to you! Hey…i m in a delima whether my bf is cheating on me or not …well thngs are nt working properly between me n my bf from past few months. Bt frm past few mnths his behaviour cheamged totally.. To forget everythibg,I went to see a musical show where I met my current boyfriend,he is a rapper,and loves me like carzy. So girl,he may not be the one for you,you deserved to be treated better.

This is not a sign he is cheating, this is obvious message he wants nothing to do with you. Threatening not to eat for any reason is emotional blackmail. You sound really sick. I think you should seek help and stay away from that guy. Hi my name is Livia and I was wonder my man showed me a while back him trying to cheat and apologies for it and said he will either delete his account on fb and make a new one or delete hot porn fb crap and I was wondering is he cheating on me he has all the signs just no physical time and if my mad did I do know he stopped but I want know from all you women is it true?

My boyfriend stephen is an auto body technician weve been together for a year now ive met his kids ive met his ex ive met all his family and i basically lived at his place all year. Hes very selfish and never compromises with me when i want something and lately hes been wanting time to himself. He lives with a female roomate that ive been around almost everyday.

I went to her baby shower. He comes over to my house every other day and stays the night on my twin bed but im thinking what hes doing those days hes not here. Am i crazy and sabotaging my relationship. So how do u really know?!? Ask God for Wisdom , then be prepared for the wisdom that you might get because it might hurt. I am dating a 11th grader named Benjamin Ford i love him with all my heart i was asking him earlier if he was cheating on me he said no. Ben has alot of female friends.

I really care about him alot. I invented Ben to my house. You probably need to concentrate on your education. Your grammar and spelling is horrifying. Instead of worrying about anyone cheating, you should probably look into bettering yourself. Your child may end up repeating a dumb bum cycle.

What if he is showing about 5 of these signs and you have asked him many times and he says no? I know for a fact he is a really good liar and when i ask he goes into a speal about id never do that to you, why would i cheat? And then he leaves his phone around me which makes me think, he wouldnt do that if he were! Lately my husband has been distant. All I am to him is a cook, maid, and occasional wife. We have 2 kids together and he rarely helps me out with them. Mine is cheating — tell me thing to do, keep me slaved, occupied. So he is free to do his things.

Hello, my boyfriend acted just same as your husband: Lately i found out he was cheating on me for the last 10 month. I think my husband is cheating… found he purchased two movie tickets, then went out to a bar and stayed at a hotel weeks ago. However I know he was supposed to be meeting up with a friend to check out his finished basement and hangout out. I confronted him and he stuck with the story that he was still with his buddy and went to the movie with a group, yet the tickets were just for two instead of just one.

He works over an hour away from our home, but my gut says somethings not right. Anyone know a way to access iCloud to set up tracking on iPhone? My husband was so smooth at hiding his infidelity so I had no proof for months. But I could just feel that he was lying about cheating! I trusted my gut instincts, and I was right.

I have been married for over 11 years now, and I think my husband is lying about cheating. Especially about something as personal as cheating. I have been married for 21years and have 2 teenage children when they were toddler I found out my husband had been going to massage parlour,brothels and internet cafes to watch porn,we had been married for 7 years at the time and had massive blowouts because of it yet he claimed he never paid he only went in a room one on one with a girl ,talked about services and price then would say he forgot his wallet for a reason to leave..

He did this for 5 years and claims it was just a cheap thrill. I then found out he went to a dating agency wanting to meet women who only wanted to hook up no strings attached but that went out the window because of the huge cost involved and I would notice. After a period of time we started to put our lives back together or so I thought. I have since found out that he done it for a further 11 years and is still claiming he has never paid for a happy ending and cut the porn down to once a month.

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How can any man do something like that for 16 years and never end up paying. He works, but in off time plays video games. These video games have mod sites that add on features, or scenes, and adult mods that grown men dress up their virtual barbies is what I call them. Will do for them, but not for me. Changes the rules of our marriage or he justifies his crap.

Caught my husband lying so many times after I found evidence to confront him with. He also turns everything around on me. The 1st two years of our marriage was attacked by his ex-wife he was divorced from over 5 years her father sued my husband, but decided to wait until 2 weeks after we got married, and not within the 5 years he was divorced. So I did soooo much court case work for him, and was a strain on our marriage from the beginning. My husband claims that everything I do for him is my own decision. I waited over 20 years to marry a 2nd time.

I deprived myself of having things, just so my husband can have things. Debts that I did not agree to and tried to make money. And many men will not cleave to their wives over their mommies, which makes it hard on the wife as surely she will never please the MIL. That goes for 1st, 2nd, 3rd, marriages and so on. And my MIL constantly pushes church on him, and me.

When it comes down too it, HE IS the one with the problem! This was good for me to write, vent, and set in my heart to heal. Not true my husband has lied to my face and I have proof. My sister text me one morning and asked of my husband was still home, I told her he had just left for work glowing after an amazing morning of love making. Well she screenshot a text he accidentally sent to her at 2: I recently suspected my boyfriend of there being someone else. My gut tells me its either a friend and texting emotional cheating or maybe someone online.

I asked him about it he denied it. Not fighting or defensive. When I asked if I could see his phone to prove me wrong, he said no. He is very strong in all his beliefs in life and after an episode during his marriage, he now feels very strongly about not doing that. He told me there is no one, he loves me and every thought and plan for the future is with me.

That he wants to spend his life with me. It was a long and emotional conversation. A lot of good things came out of it. He has not changed his appearance, there is no change in our relationship, we have fun together. That confrontation was 2 days ago. Yesterday he texted with me all day. All about our feelings for each other which is difficult for him to do.

Last night we had a great night. Not only did he use his phone in front of me, when he received texts he told me who they were from. And he left the room multiple times leaving me alone in the other room with his phone. My boyfriend did same thing and when i confront him he denied everything and few days was extremely nice to me, i got a lot of his attention and he left his phone around me and leave as well. He was playing in honest guy but reality he blocked her number for a while to keep fooling me about.

What do you think — is his text message enough evidence that he is having an affair? I probably be equally concerned about my husband breaking my nose.


Regardless of whether or not cheating… What do you think about him assaulting you like that? What would you tell someone in your position? What would you tell your kid, or a best friend you had when you were young, or your sister? What advice would you give? Not that u are but I feel when people hear my situation they pity me and that is not at all what I want in any way. Because I am a very strong willed woman and mother who has over come a lot of challenges and obstacles in my life and intended to keep trying until I can get through this one as well.

For instance my mother was a single mom of five children so at 16 I was made to marry a 27 year old man so that she could get help financially to pay bills and take care of my other siblings.. Unlike when I get abused I can go on and act like it never happened. They have no support and no place to go to.. I can relate to you on here my husband bought a new phone and left his old phone here. I have a three-year-old and told him I had postpartum depression. Ive been married for 12 years. He had his birthday in November, and went out for dinner with a few work mates.

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He was first telling me he had gone home on the train to the Navy accommodation block. Then caught the train back in the morning to meet up for breakfast. After questioning him some more, he admitted he had stayed there the weekend in November. He was still referring to her as someone till I again questioned him. I was then told her name was Judy.

His story was still changing. He told me he asked her if he could stay, but quickly changed that to she asked him. He says nothing happened and he slept on the couch. I feel he had a one night stand, as he got all defensive when I questioned him, even asked me hed I had been having an affair, so put it back on me. I found out in October my husband was talking to another woman for 5 months. He said he was only talking to her notjing happened.

I had to meet the other woman to get the truth in December and find out they had a realtionship. How can you talk to your husband about your feelings without getting into a fight? Come to find out they work together. What if I was told by a girl he cheated, then I found a message from him to that girls friend saying he wanted her.

My gut and the message proves he did but he denies it. I feel like my husband is hiding something. I found out in Sept that my husband was having an affair for 2 or 3 months. He did all of the usual crappy stuff like lying and sneaking around and sleeping with his phone. He admitted to the affair. He said it was a girl he went to nursing school with a few years before and he saw her at a store where they began talking. They hooked up in hotel rooms while I thought he was at work. He even had the gall to answer some of my texts while he was laying in the hotel bed with her.

He told me so.

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She was 20 years younger than m3. I find it incredibly odd that she just happened to move away right at the time I found out about the affair. I asked what her name was but he refused to tell me. After constant demanding from me via text while he was at work. We are trying to work things out but my doubts about this are eating me up.

What do yall think? I am so sorry! My husband is also lying about cheating and I found him on the craiglist!! I believe he is cheating. I have lived it. My husband and I have been going through this for years with stupid messaging relationships and I always get tired of fighting and forgive him but it never stops it from happening again.

He cheated on me when I was carrying our son but I married him anyway. Wish I had left after the first time…. These are good ways to find out if your husband is lying about cheating. But since nowadays everyone has mobile phones, and you can just install a program for tracking his phone. Even if he deletes all of the correspondence you will see everything. The only reason he is still with me is for our kids. I think that is also why I stay quiet and let it happen. I afraid I have lived with him since I was 18 years I am now He hates when I have to go help my mom and says really stupid things.

You are worth so much more…. I wish you all the strength in the world.. Ellie thank you so much for your kind words. I have spoke to him and told him the things that bother me and he has been better attentive. What tracking program would you recommend to find out if your husband is lying about cheating? Talk to someone you trust. Get in-person advice and counseling. Talk to someone who knows you, or who is objective such as a counselor or therapist.

Know that you can handle this! Whether or not your husband is cheating, you have the resources and strength you need to deal with it. Connect with women who are strong and understanding, and find ways to get emotionally and spiritually strong. Find pockets of life and light, and stay there. Be wise, and trust that you are loved completely by Someone bigger and stronger than your husband.

Great info here Laurie. I like the 5 points how to know if your spouse is cheating. You should have a base expression of your spouse when the two of you are chatting together casual. Then if you want to know if your spouse is lying you can use that base expression when asking questions. In this way you have a way to check if your spouse is lying or telling the truth.

He took that picture on the restroom and sent it to her there was no other emails to her anymore just that picture.. I go over his friends on Facebook and because of her name and phone on Facebook I find out it was a high school friend who is married and has a little girl.. I confronted him again he said they where just talking but he deleted all the messages..

I have found more messages from different girls on his social media he said there is nothing wrong in talking to girls but he deletes Athens messages if there is nothing wrong why delete them right.. I have deleted several girls from his Facebook but thereshe this one that he always request back his Facebook account was deactivatedoing for some time first thing he does is request that girl again and he hids it from his timeline.. Lucky me I ran across your website by accident stumbleupon.

I have book marked it for later! But I did find a really interesting book about men who cheat, and I wrote this article:. There are some really interesting tips and ideas for how to know if your husband is cheating in the book I cite. The best thing is to get evidence, so you have something solid to confront him with. Hi, my husband and I have been married for a little over a year. We had seperated in September until November Long story short he left me 3 hours away from home and went back home, after he realized he screwed up he called crying.

Fast forward to April , I had recieved a phone call from a private number at maybe am from a female stating she had been screwing my husband. Well I broke it to her that I had just screwed him and it upset her so she hung up. Well he falls asleep and I went through his phone and found somethings from a female he said was like a sister. It crushed me and sent me into a very bad depression not only was my husband cheating but I had also found out 2 weeks prior that a good friend had been murdered.

My world was shattered. Well I broke it to him that if we are going to work he cannot hurt me anymore because if he does I will walk out and he can never get me back. Well fast forward to about 2 months ago. His job was hiring and I had a friend whom I had worked with previously looking for a job. She started work and it was all good except he started to care a lot more about his apperence.

Wearing jeans, nice shirt, nice shoes and doing more to his hair. He has a very chill job and usually wore sweats well Up until 3 weeks ago. He started to change, being very mean, being out late, changing his phones password, blocking me. All different types of things. They had been texting, talking on Facebook and God only knows what at work. Well I began to ask questions and my husband kept saying I was crazy and how I was always accusing him but I have always been right about him. So I blocked her and him and I fought. When I questioned it he flipped on me.

He then sent her text messages that he deleted before I saw them. Is my husband cheating? What should I do? Your instincts are dead on. You need to confront your friend and end the friendship with her as well. If you cant work it out with your husband divorce is a great option. Based on the information you have posted here ,your husband is a serial cheater. Men like to make u think that you are the crazyone but you are intuitive and intelligent enough to see what is going on. It is up to you to love your self ,not lower your standards and find youa good man that will treat you like a queen.

If you want to know if your husband is lying about cheating. My cousin lived with us for one year as house helper, after few months i suspected something between my husband and my cousin, like they sometimes look for each other without telling me the reason, one time we were on vacation and he went home because his reason was of that our business, and one time i saw him running after her when she was about to go home, and many more,. After a year the girl was not with us anymore. But i am confused and i doubt hes lying. My husband and I have been married two years now.

Together for about seven years. Before we were officially together he treated me like no other had before. I fully explained what I expected from our relationship and the balance of friends and romance time. We moved onwards from there, but it always felt like something was wrong. It was as if I was a chore or a roommate. It made me so confused and depressed. I did everything for him. I told myself that it would go back to the way it was. Things would be okay. Maybe it was the slowing down of drinking? One night he was on call at the local tow company he worked for and a text message came in that he slept through.

I cried and cried and then cried some more. My amazing man who lifted up my spirits like nobody else could, had shattered my world with an affair. I checked his Facebook page while I was at it. At least seven more affairs. We went to couples counseling to try to heal the wounds within our relationship. It ended up being more like his therapy sessions. I was invisible there. There was and still has been no sympathy or compassion for my broken heart. Not from him or the therapist. Thinking that I had known everything now and maybe we could be stronger, I married him.

He refuses to talk about it or even accept his own guilt. I just have to deal with it and move on. I believe that he has tried to hook up with this girl again. He truly thinks that with his past he should be trusted and that he needs to do nothing to fix this. I wish I had known everything before we were married. I so sorry ur going through this. Like all women, we fell hook, line and sinker…They got us, but still wants to live the single life. If I was in ur shoes, I would sit down and have heart to heart talk with him.

C what he wants and what u want. Even if there are children, no children or adult should live like this…. You need to find out…. Samantha- I read your story. You had faith, it was broken. You gave him the benefit of the doubt, that was thrown in your face. Are you waiting for a sex tape to arrive at your house?

You seem like a kind trusting person. You would not do those things to him! Trust me, there is a man for you. Move on and leave him behind. I am in a VERY similar situation: I thought we were so perfect together, he was my safe place and my best friend. About a month before our 1 year anniversary I caught him lying about something. I was so deviated. In that moment in felt like the man I had loved had just died.. I still feel like this is cheating either way. But my trust for him is gone, and so is the beautiful relationship I thought we had.

Are you going to stay with your husband? My story is a little different. A married man took advantage of me 3 year ago. It started as normal as can be. We both live in the same building. I live for 39 he 23 years. I first saw him 20 plus years, never spoken to each other. Then about 4 years ago, I was telling a joke to my other neighbors and there he was laughing…I introduced myself to him.

There is and was nothing going on between us but a friendship…well I thought. We spent many hours talking and spare life stories. Little did I know, he was waiting for the right moment to assault me. U see I kind of know his wife, and went to high school with his sis-in-law. I could walk away from this and just take it a misunderstanding.. He is chronic liar and a cheater. I always ask him to take a test.. I waiting and waiting until Feb 21, I told his wife. His wife called me a liar and everything on the book.

He was force to tell his wife and the polices his affairs, his one nightstands and what he did to me…After all this, do I regret telling his wife…NO. First, I wanted to put him and every man like him in his place. And second I wanted to hurt him and if it means going through his wife, then YES. Half of my neighbors have known he was cheating for years.

I in therapy…As far as I know the wife still with him, knowing he cheats. He takes care of her by paying her rent and etc. There are women out there like his wife who are blind and stupid…I was stupid for 3 years,,,where his wife over 23 years…why she and other stay is the answer I would like to know…. I was also taken advantage of when I was in a VERY vulnerable position, just experienced a lot of major trauma, huge losses my entire family , he hurt my grown son, etc.

I was devastated from losing my whole family! He got VERY ugly, snapped, etc. It was at a horrendous time too when Is just been dealt another loss! How cruel I thought! I was doubled over in severe emotional paun, crying out to God! Sweet Pea, It gives me some comfort knowing I not alone. He is not a nice man. It was all his fault. I come from a difference race. But I prove him wrong. And if hurting him means going through his wife I will….

My husband has been working for the past month from Sunday to Sunday. For the first time he stayed out the whole night and lied where he were. We have a three year old daughter together. I prayed with someone else where two or more are together Jesus is in the midst. She was mad and threatening to tell me. I that affair started when I was pregnant and I found out when our son was 15 months old.

Such a smart response. I have prayed that too and God has revealed it when it needed to be, every time! You are absolutely right! I to prayed That The Lord would reveal to me what I needed to know! I found the texts and my world collapsed!

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Out of all the nights to check and all of the times he deleted texts before coming home, this one night, he forgot. Everytime he goes to visit them. I confronted him n he denied saying she meant before I came into his life. Some months passed and one day she called saying she was pregnant again…he became moody. He took me outside on a stroll…we talked and he said he was sorry about wat he had to tell me. He told me that when he went there he drank with her and her friend…n became drunk. This took him months to tell me. I feel he lied about everything.

Nothing against you more against them. Yes he made the whole story up. Tell her the story he told you and it will piss her off and she will tell everything. My husband was texting a female at work all night, I asked who the woman was and he said it was an older woman from another line he works in a large assembly plant. I asked to see the text and he deleted them.

So, I called the number and it was a female his age. Come to find out this lady had left her husband a few yrs ago for another man at the plant and he works the opposite shift as them. She was also pentecostal and stopped wearing skirts, started wearing make up and cut her hair. I called her and acted like he was sitting there, she tells me they are just really good friends and that she was telling him she was done meaning done being friends with him. She also said they met up at a parking lot where a lot of people go to hang out and drink after work at around 2 or 3 am when they get off work.

She swore nothing sexual but all she cared about was her boyfriend who works the other shift and was very defensive. I told him no and that if he talks to her without me around I was leaving, I said you have the entire weekend to call her with me sitting right here. I just felt like that if he was really that mad he would have called her. My husband went away on business the same weekend i took our daughters on a shopping trip, but my gut told me different.

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He has a history of lying to me but thought he had stopped. I found strange underware but we all joked it off. He geta defensive when I ask small questions. Coverststions are less, sex gas gone from 2 times a day to, once every 3 months. No hand holding no romance pretty much nothing!!! He owns his own business and ends his day at the same place before coming everyday another womans business.

I have confronted him several times, showed up there once that was a bad idea he got so upset. He gets very defensive when i bring anything up. I have seen flirtations in emails to and from other women that he denies. I tell him I love him. I do little special things for him. Not to walk away thinking what if i was wrong, did I just give up. There are a lot of financial issues as well that could be keeping him here I think thats the only glue.

Please help by telling me what you think! I waited 30 years,same shit,now go running. Why are you wasting what is left of your youth on a man who is interested in other women? You will find another man, someone who wants only you. You know it and he knows you know it. You are worth so much more than this!!! You can do it. Vickie, you already know honey. He is treating you disrespectably. At this point, anything you endure is your own fault.

I know that sounds harsh, but you know better. Your belly is screaming at you. That means leaving him and not allowing it. If you have children, you do not want to show them this as an acceptable way to treat people, or allow yourself to be treated. You are worth more. That means act as if, fake it til you make it. Once you get through that you will feel good and be empowered.

I sat it all the time, but remember this. It is so important. And we are blessed with 22months old son. If i say i understand whats happening in my marriage now am lying. We all go through emotional changes, like the weather. However, you may notice that your partner's attitude has changed toward you over time; they may have become more self-absorbed and less interested in you or the relationship. Often, your partner may reject your offers of affection. Your best approach here is to pay attention and be curious. Anger and criticism that borders on cruelty is hard to take for all of us.

Your partner may treat you with rudeness or impatience. He may be more controlling and more critical than usual. You may sense an increase in the degree of unhappiness in your spouse that is difficult to understand. With some partners, you may actually see an increase in happiness as a result of being involved in an affair. You notice an increase in his work or his time spent away from home. Work can be demanding. During these times of economic stress, most workplaces are demanding more and more from their employees.

Workplace relationships can develop into romantic relationships simply because the amount of time spent together on a common task tends to bond people together. If your partner has trouble with boundaries, this could lead to a problem for your relationship. He pays an unusual amount of attention to his appearance. This would be especially telling if up until now, your partner has not shown much attention to his appearance. If your partner is having an affair, he has found a new source of love and affection. Looking good for his paramour is very important.

Defensiveness exists for many reasons. In the past, were you able to discuss issues openly and calmly?

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What you are looking for here is an increase in the normal amount of defensiveness. His appearance has changed. Your partner, who previously dressed conservatively, is now suddenly buying designer boxer shorts and more trendy clothes. Or, your partner, who never spent much time grooming himself, is now fussy about how his hair looks and uses grooming products he's never used before.

His behavior has changed.